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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 2:43 pm Post subject: Sociopaths and Drug Addicts
I don't date often, I don't like to. But every once in a while, someone will charm the hell out of me. So after a 3rd failed relationship because the person turned out to be a drug addict/ and or other mental problems, I am beginning to wonder whether or not the problem is me. How do these people find me? Is it just 10 years bad luck? I don't do drugs. I don't lie. I am a typical 25 year old that goes out and has a good time, occasionally partaking in illegal substances but nothing out of the ordinary.
So I want to know whether its me who subconciously is attracted to these wierdos or if its some vibe I am giving out. I am not gullable or niave. I am not clingly or dependent. I am not nosy or prying.....so why do these men constantly lie and do drugs behind my back. I want to know what goes through their heads when they see me......what distinguishes me from the next girl in that first 5 mins these men meet me that they decide I am a sucker???? What red flags am I not seeing???? AHHHHHHH.............
Any advice would be awesome. Because I know that their is some sort of parallel between my behavior and their's.
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